Saturday, October 08, 2005
10/08/2005 11:32:00 PMsticky issue
for the sake of protecting their identity just in case larh..
talked to #1 for a short while today. but it was a REALLY GOOD talk.without people like 'interrupting'.finally did some catching up and all.and we had a deep talk about relationships and all...relationships are sticky issues. #1 asked wad i wanted in my husband.i said he must be able to be a good father. he doesnt have to be super duper love me like xiao kind(it'll be ideal of course) but he must be a good father.someone who can be a good role model to my kids and instill godly values in them. i think fathers are really impt.good God-loving parents.
talking to #2 on msn. rships again.i enjoy talking about them and listening to the perspective of others. like wad they think and all.i really thank God that i read "i kissed dating goodbye" by josh harris when i was like sec 3 or was it 4. it's like the best time of ur life to read it.i owe it to mr peter khoo(who has abandoned his nice little fren here for his gf) he's on his stage of "boy meets girl"** while i'm still at "i kissed dating goodbye" it was a really good book. i think if i never read that..i'll prolly be some kid perplexed over rships.already now the thot of having to commit to a rship is quite intimidating. imagine being in it.*shrudders*but one thing that has been at the back of my mind...how do we put God in the picture? what does it mean to centre the rship arnd God? #2: u must read it k. try get hold of the book. if u cant tell me..i help u find =) hope u enjoy it as much as i did =)
hmm..somehow all my convos recently with alot of people seem to be on rships. broken rships.the pain and hurt. how some become scarred/cynical. but on the other hand i have convos with people telling me of how they wanna win over their future gf/bf.the 'tactics'.teehee.interesting interesting...
conclusion: rships are tricky. for now.i'll keep away from them. =)
**in case u are lost.."boy meets girl"is the not quite sequel but anyway the second of i kissed dating goodbye.it's about josh harris and his wife.yes. after kissing dating goodbye he got himself a happy and bliss marriage. wanna know the secret? read the book to find out.
talked to #1 for a short while today. but it was a REALLY GOOD talk.without people like 'interrupting'.finally did some catching up and all.and we had a deep talk about relationships and all...relationships are sticky issues. #1 asked wad i wanted in my husband.i said he must be able to be a good father. he doesnt have to be super duper love me like xiao kind(it'll be ideal of course) but he must be a good father.someone who can be a good role model to my kids and instill godly values in them. i think fathers are really impt.good God-loving parents.
talking to #2 on msn. rships again.i enjoy talking about them and listening to the perspective of others. like wad they think and all.i really thank God that i read "i kissed dating goodbye" by josh harris when i was like sec 3 or was it 4. it's like the best time of ur life to read it.i owe it to mr peter khoo(who has abandoned his nice little fren here for his gf) he's on his stage of "boy meets girl"** while i'm still at "i kissed dating goodbye" it was a really good book. i think if i never read that..i'll prolly be some kid perplexed over rships.already now the thot of having to commit to a rship is quite intimidating. imagine being in it.*shrudders*but one thing that has been at the back of my mind...how do we put God in the picture? what does it mean to centre the rship arnd God? #2: u must read it k. try get hold of the book. if u cant tell me..i help u find =) hope u enjoy it as much as i did =)
hmm..somehow all my convos recently with alot of people seem to be on rships. broken rships.the pain and hurt. how some become scarred/cynical. but on the other hand i have convos with people telling me of how they wanna win over their future gf/bf.the 'tactics'.teehee.interesting interesting...
conclusion: rships are tricky. for now.i'll keep away from them. =)
**in case u are lost.."boy meets girl"is the not quite sequel but anyway the second of i kissed dating goodbye.it's about josh harris and his wife.yes. after kissing dating goodbye he got himself a happy and bliss marriage. wanna know the secret? read the book to find out.